Wednesday, 17 May 2017

Top Things Men Wants From You In A Relationship

It’s quite obvious that most ladies are not so sure of what men really want from them so as to keep a healthy relationship with them. Women are always complaining about how men never keep to themselves and keep wondering the things that men wants from them. They’re not big fans of sharing feelings or whatever’s on their mind. So women never really know what’s going on with them.

Even if you’re with a guy of the sort, and you’re never sure of what he likes or what he wants you to do for him, you need not to worry. We all have tell-tales. So just look for signs indicating what he does or doesn’t like.

That been said, there are a few things that your guy would generally appreciate coming from you, even if he doesn’t say it out loud. Just the way most guys will not ask for it, so if your guy is the type that doesn’t ask for much, make sure you know the things that he wants and try as much as you can to carry them out.

So, here are the principal things that men wants from you but may not say it to your face:

1: He wants to know you:
You might have doubts about this one, but he does actually, sincerely wants to get to know you. Of course he won’t deal with it well if you’re giving him too much to process at once. Get to know his moods. Talk to him when you know for sure he’s in the mood to listen. He’d not only listen but also remember the things you tell him; especially those that hold a great deal of importance to you. He loves how you can go on and on about something you’re passionate about. He equally adores your embarrassing stories. When you share your deepest, darkest secrets with him, he appreciates you for trusting him. Make him trust you. 

2: Respect:
You could be complaining about how he doesn’t respect your feelings or thoughts regarding a certain subject, but has he ever done the same? Maybe not! But don’t fool yourself into believing that if he’s not complaining, you must be doing everything right. Think about how you treat him. Are his opinions important to you? Do you consider them when the two of you are deciding something together? Or do you always have things your way? Do you see some sense of good judgment whenever he scolds you or do you shout and bounce your ears off the truth about reality? Moreover respect and appreciate his efforts and the part he plays in the relationship. He not only deserves but also wants to be respected, even if he isn’t saying it.

3: He wants time to himself as well:
They are two types of time guys need. They are

The time for work – don’t ever ask for it
The time for himself – you can ask for just 5-10%
Time for other things– you can ask for all

How do you unwind after a long, busy week? See your friends? a day at the spa? a movie marathon or a shopping spree maybe? He needs to unwind as well. Just because he does it differently than you doesn’t mean it doesn’t help him relax. Watching sports, playing games, maybe even a road trip with friends. So don’t complain when he wants to have time to himself. Some men are very busy and barely have time for themselves and you must have to understand that or he will see you as a threat to his career and comfort. If he has enough time to himself, he would have never fall short of giving you the undivided attention you deserve when you’re with him.
Your man may leave you the moment you begin to ask for 70% of his time to be spent with you (don’t be clingy). Try to know the difference between the time for his work/hustle and the time other things.

4: Stop trying to change him:
There’s a big difference between what you don’t like about him and something that is actually wrong. They are rarely the same thing. If it’s something that doesn’t reflect well on him as a person, then maybe you could make him realize (in his own time and space) and help him get rid of it. As a couple you’re supposed to bring out the best in each other. But if it’s something like his hair or his obsession with a sport, (say he has so much passion for watching football) then you should find a way to accept it. If its really something you can’t stand, gently talk to him and give good reasons why you want him to drop the attitude. But don’t freak out when he refuses to drop it. Remember you’re not in control of him. Love him for who he is, don’t try to change him unnecessarily.

5: Encouragement:
He tries challenging himself every now and then to become a better version of himself and to reach new heights. Be the support that he needs. Believe in him and you’d see how that’d add to his confidence. Especially when he is thinking about giving up, remind him of why he should keep at it. It pleases him to see that you have faith in him.

6: He wants to spend more time with you:
If you’re a bit of a social butterfly, make sure you make time for him. If you both are already married, always come back early from work and don’t let him come back before you. If you both are still dating, always know that he should be the busy one hustling out there to make life better for the two of you. Make him your priority. There is no excuse for you to ignore him. But you don’t have to cut out everyone from your life or give up everything you love doing because of a man. All you need to do is strike a balance and make whatever time you spend with him precious. He wants you to give him more time even if he’s not saying it.

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These are some of the things that he wants from you in addition to affection, praise, sex and so many other things. Some of these he’d have no trouble asking for, while others he’d never let you know. As much as he might appear to be, your man isn’t completely incomprehensible. Try connecting with him and getting to know him. It will work out well for both of you.

If you have lost any relationship before due to any of these factors that your man did not complain about, I suggest you move on and remember to follow the above points.

 Good luck in your relationship

Saturday, 13 May 2017

"YungBady" Break Out Of Nigerian Music With "African Woman" Download Here @iam_yungbady @jejetvnews

"YungBady" Break Out Of Nigerian Music With "African Woman" Download Here @iam_yungbady @jejetvnews

After the successful release of " Oluwa show me the way" featuring Eazi Moni, Ezebue uchenna Richard popularly known as " YungBady" has decided to explain the true definition of beauty in Africa via this new song titled " African Woman" . I bet you this will bring memories of African culture as the afro-pop Singer based in Lagos State expressed his love for Africa. 

This is a song for every African lady out there and a song for every man who respects African women. This amazing song is produced by Endeetones, Mixed and Mastered by Tpiano. 
Download below and enjoy! 

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Thursday, 11 May 2017

#NoMercyForLanre: Mercy Aigbe - A Case Study Of Domestic Violence

Hey guys, here is another one from @ceafng. Go HERE to see their writeup about the #KemenVsTboss-molestation case. This one is on #MercyVsLanre-domestic violence.
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Domestic violence is a nightmare which is seeped into reality and becomes a controversial topic when brought to the spotlight especially when a celebrity is involved.  
When you bring up the name Mercy Aigbe and domestic violence you get a flood of information, stories and report. The story started on the popular social media platform, Instagram, where Mercy Aigbe posted a picture on the 28th of April 2017 with the caption “say  no to domestic violence…” 

It sparked questions and suspicion which the actress tried to shut down by later sharing a picture of her and her husband, Lanre Gentry, which she took down moments later following harsh comments by fans and followers on her Instagram page. She was later spotted after the event covered in makeup with little trace of the incident.
The rocky marriage of mercy Aigbe became a trending topic that week escalating to three people arrested for harassment and a restraining order was secured against her husband.
According to reports, on the  5th of May Mercy Aigbe showed up at the Area F police station in response to invitation by police only to meet the absence of her husband Lanre Gentry who however came out to the media to deny battering his wife, also claiming that the actress/business woman has been going through mental disorder piled with accusations of infidelity.
Mercy Aigbe also took to the media changing her handle from @mercyaigbegentry to @realmercyaigbe with an exposing e-letter, picture evidence of the incident and followup scanning procedure done to prove the extent of the abuse, a harsh reality check to the shy topic of domestic violence which can happen to anyone even in the most seemingly stable relationship.
Lanre Gentry has embarked on a journey of cat and mouse. Running away from the law and there has been an accusation of Lanre conniving with the police, an accusation made by Mercy Aigbe herself.
We just hope this will not be another case of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE been swept under the rug, which has become the norm in our society.

This is a lesson to everyone that the seemingly most perfect couple might not be so perfect after all. Stop the envy!
Let’s share and raise awareness!
Well, I just played my own part, hope you will do same.

Wednesday, 10 May 2017

How To Prepare Homemade Bread

We all know that nothing tastes as good as a home cooked food. In homemade recipes, you know exactly what goes into your meal and the needed quantity of each ingredient to make it a delight! Unlike meals prepared for profit making which can be made with lots of substandard alternative and less nutritious. We will agree that homemade foods are naturally healthy, nutritious, delicious and not to mention satisfying.
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So, you want to bake bread right? It's very easy and you don't have to run a bakery or work in one before you can do that; you can bake your own homemade bread at the comfort of your home, no, your kitchen. lol.
Even if you don’t have a bread pan or oven at home, you can still use the regular cake/baking pan and use a pot for your oven. Check HERE for how to use your pot as an oven.

Here are the Ingredients you will need:
  • 2½ cups of all-purpose flour
  • 3 tablespoonful sugar
  • 1 tablespoonful active dry yeast
  • 3 tablespoon vegetable/olive oil or 2 tablespoonful margarine 
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 1 egg (optional)
  • 1 cup of lukewarm water

Method of preparation:
  • Measure out 1 cup of lukewarm water, add the yeast and sugar. Stir and leave to froth for few minutes.
  • Measure the flour into a mixing bowl, add oil/margarine and gently rub in the fat. Add salt and egg (optional) and mix.   
  • Make a well in the middle of the flour mixture and add the rising yeast mixture little at a time until completely mixed. 
  • Transfer to a clean surface dusted with flour and knead for about 8 minutes. Cover the dough in a clean bowl using a neat kitchen towel and leave to rise for about 20 minutes.
  • Turn the dough onto a clean flat surface again and knead for another 8 minutes. Transfer into the bowl and cover again for about 1hour 30 minutes and then, knead again for 2 minutes. 
  • Cut into greased baking pans and leave to rise for an hour.
  • Bake at 180°C for 30-45 minutes till the top is golden brown.
  • Cool and slice. Serve as desired.                                            
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So, what do you think of your freshly baked homemade bread? I bet yummy!

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Remember you can experiment with other alternative ingredients you choose! There is no right or wrong ingredient in homemade cooking! Plus, you get to style your bread the way you want it to look.
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Don't forget to share your experience when you try it. 
And you can always do some for a little extra income.

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