Thursday, 26 January 2017

How To Know A Guy Who Is A Keeper

Marriage is an exciting prospect, but when you're in love with someone, sometimes your emotions can cloud your judgment. Ladies, he may be a fun guy, but is he worthy to take your hand in marriage? Can you imagine him as the father of your children?
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Of course, you don't want to spend your life with"Mr. Blah," but bear in mind the long road ahead. Remember, this is your future we're talking about. Before committing to the wrong guy, try to consider the below top qualities of a keeper:
1. He is kind to young children and old women:
A guy who is both tender with kids and respectful to the elderly is worth a second look. Look out for guys who adores kids. His siblings, nieces, nephews, and other kids should go nuts about him. You will understand the essence of this when your kids starts coming!

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Similarly, a guy who is a gentleman to his mom and other women is a keeper. A man's behavior toward women says volumes about the type of person he is.
2. He is willing to get his hands dirty:
When the car stalls or the gutters need cleaned, it's sure handy to have a manly guy around. Even if your guy isn't a skilled mechanic or handyman, it's nice to have someone who will dig in and not shy away from hard work.

A guy with a strong work ethic will teach your children the value of hard work. Don't settle for someone lazy or someone who won't pitch in to help maintain your home. A man who extends a helping hand to others is someone worthy of your love, too.

3. He isn't in love with himself:
Steer clear of the guy who moons over himself. You know — the guy who never saw a mirror he didn't like.

Who wants to spend her life with a vain man? It's fine to want to look nice, and no one wants to be with a slob — but pay attention to your man's ego and make sure he's not a slave to fashion (for example, too hipster) or his physique. You don't want a selfish or narcissistic hubby.

4. He is honest:
When you've snagged an honest man, you can be assured of several things. Your husband won't be unfaithful to you. He'll be true to his co-workers, boss, friends and family members. He'll be upfront in his financial dealings. When he makes mistakes, he won't hide them from you because he is a man of honor.

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You'll enjoy peace of mind and feel more secure in your marriage with an honest man.

5. He is humble:
Each of the above four attributes points to another attribute: humility. Find and marry someone who is humble, because he will regard you more highly than himself. You will appreciate him more and you will hardly yell at each other!

6. He know God:
This would have been the first but I had to safe the best for the last. Trust me, you need a man who knows and loves God. Well, except you have a personal reason/experience to skip this one!
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Well, these are not all the qualities to look out for but they seem to be the major ones. if you have someone who can have these then you have little or nothing to worry about.
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