Tuesday, 11 July 2017

How You Can Become A Better Husband

Truth be told, it is not easy these days to have the husband of your choice! The ladies can relate with that *wink*. Though, there are many good and dope men in this world, things seem to have changed that some men are not ready to hold firmly to their oath of "For Better For Worse". Sometimes, I just want to puke my guts out when I see how some husbands treats their wives, even in public! Some of them gat no chill anymore! Gosh!
To all the great men who want to become a better husband, I heart you a lot and that's why I put this post together for you. I checked out mistakes some husbands made and decided to write down some rules that can guide you through your journey of been then best husband:



1. Don't shout her down: 
Whenever you are both having an argument or something, let her ramble (as long as she's not stabbing your heart), when she finishes her ramble, grab her waist and give her a tight hug. Don't let go even if she tries to push you away or screams at you to let her go. Pull her closer instead. In cases when you cant listen to her blabbing, gently reach for her face and kiss her to stop her from talking further.

2. Surprise her: 
Haphazardly purchase blossoms, take her to a swanky eatery, purchase her an arbitrary present or generally treat her to something decent. It needn't be an expensive showoff, however an intermittent sprinkle will go far. Take her to places she always have in mind but can't visit cause of one reason or the other. Just do things that will make her gape at you in a loving way. You could even cook her favourite yourself or volunteer to do the dishes!  Lol... Just saying. But you know you could do that.


Surprise changes minds. It delights. It demonstrates that the fire of sentiment is as yet smoldering. Astonishment is, by definition, unforeseen, so keep blending it up and being innovative. 

3. Push the watercraft out: 
Sometimes, accomplish something costly together. Push the vessel out. Go to a costly eatery. Go on vacation to some intriguing area. Purchase her a costly commemoration present. 
Yes, you generally need to deal with the cash, so put something aside for periodic times when you have to go overboard. These should be possible as amazements however frequently are enjoyable to arrange together. Start the procedure, then give her choices and let her pick. 

4. Make her laugh: 
Chuckling originates from indiscernible amazement. Tell jokes. Be entertaining. Horse around. When she considers you, she ought to grin inside. Playing the simpleton additionally says you believe her not to exploit your stupidity. 
Fun might exists on the edge of worthiness, so be mindful so as not to tread into risky waters (for instance with sexual orientation jokes). Don't go or push too far, realize where her limits are and regard them. 

5. Guard her: 
Ladies like to feel safe, and as the weaker sex effortlessly feel more defenseless than men. On the off chance that some person assaults her, verbally or something else, go to bat for her. In the event that vital, put yourself at danger. She'll adore you for your boldness. In the event that you appear to be willing to place yourself in harm's way for her, you should without a doubt love her most importantly else.


This does not mean assaulting each man who takes a gander at her or hopping in with both feet when you hear part of a remark. Discover what's happening before putting your neck out. Conversational intrusions can humiliate her. Hostility, even to others, can alarm her. Listening then inconspicuously defusing the circumstance can at times be best. Never forget your objective is her solace, not to knead your own particular masculinity.

6. Consider her choices too:
Some ladies may not always show it but they silently wish you hear them out too before making a choice for you both. It could be where to hangout for a date, what to eat, or even bigger things like how many kids you both want and when to go visit the family. Before you make certain decisions, seek her own opinion even if you may not take them. Most times it feels great when she feels you want to have her take on something.

7. Treat her like a woman:
It might appear to be antiquated, yet, unless she's a decided women's activist, she'll like it when you do things like opening entryways for her, helping her on with her jacket, and essentially continually putting her first. 
Trust me, even when they don't show it, ladies like to feel uncommon. They need to know you regard them and would never hurt them. Being a courteous fellow is a decent approach to demonstrate this.


There are more rules but I bet you these are the major ones you should try to focus and work on. The rest may even unveil themselves to you as you follow these basic rules.

Don't forget to always pray with her and also play with her.


I am sure it will surely help you.
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